Possible Clues:

• Opportunity to give out name woman left
• Relict
• One losing husband
• One without partner opening without knight
• Drag character or characters from 'www.', one entered with an 'enter', perhaps
• Word with 'merry' or 'black'
• Exclamation of surprise about identity revealed by woman post-match
• Orphan's kin, in typesetting
• see 21 Across
• Word on the spider variety list