Possible Clues:

• What may be paid when someone dies
• Pays heed to details
• The last of these may be paid on spec, with time and sympathy, initially
• Salutations concerning glasses around time
• Abides by, as rules
• Esteems good person turning up preceded by awful creeps
• Expressions of esteem
• They're paid at memorials
• They might be paid at a memorial
• Has high opinion of