Possible Clues:

• Dish in search of society?
• A fellow's first short, short and sweet
• Consumed case of raspberries eating fine dessert
• You won't hear any speeches here but are expected to bring a present
• Strafe with desserts
• Pudding for tea, say? Where's that?
• Informal desserts, puddings
• A female's mainly short and sweet
• Puddings, desserts
• Subsequent to the wedding? It's faster that way