Possible Clues:

• Stuffy executive or potential husband?
• Person wooing another
• Courting sort
• eg Owl pursuing pussycat that's possibly ours, grabbing it
• One of many for Penelope in the 'Odyssey'
• He courts a woman
• Person trying to win a hand?
• Who may want lover? Men going to clubs?
• Diamonds, for example, and gold for lover
• Man courting a woman may give diamonds, say, and gold