Related Clues:

• Defeatist's assertion
• 'Sorry, ask someone else'
• Defeatist’s words
• "This is unbearable!"
• 'It's just too much for me'
• Negative response to an invite
• "All booked up, sorry"
• "It's too hard for me!"
• "It's too hard for me"
• 'Sorry, it's impossible for me'
• "That is just TOO much for me!"
• Busy person's response to an invitation
• "Sorry, too busy" (In this clue's answer, note the last 3 letters + the first 3 of 21-Across)
• "Today's a no-go for me"
• "It's all too much"