Possible Clues:

• Conferred
• Given, ideally not paid for
• Better not have paid for the present given
• Gave advice from a fan of marriage? Only the one time
• Given, and ideally shouldn't be paid back
• Given that's not been paid for, very good
• Being given, it's advisable not to have paid for it
• Given to being preferably not put paid to, perhaps
• Having given this, it's better not to have paid for it
• Given that it's all to the good not to have paid for it