Possible Clues:

• "___ you accept this rose?"
• Testamentary document
• "Time ___ tell ..."
• Mental resolve
• Fancy Women�s Institute over-50s
• Wife having bad self-control
• Source of some power?
• 'Tiny tots with their eyes all aglow ___ find it hard to sleep tonight'
• Shortz in recent usage news
• Self control left behind of late