Possible Clues:

• Al-Anon member, maybe
• One who supplies the means
• Facilitator, one who empowers
• One who eschews tough love
• One helping rebel and endless revolutionary
• One who doesn't give tough love, say
• One who helps penpal buy elsewhere – only looking in prime locations
• Addict's helper
• Learner failing to finish book bothered facilitator
• Co-dependency figure