Possible Clues:

• He'll suit you
• Maker of garments
• Involving grief, death, destruction
• He comes at the end, or before a soldier
• It comes last, or one might tinker with it
• One comes at an end or before a soldier
• One who makes garments
• Fashion to follow round, right?
• ... to follow men's fashion
• Specially adapt as follower of tinker