Possible Clues:

• You turned to hug maiden - way to show this?
• Sharing experiences upset me - a course ending in melancholy
• Appreciating how it feels to pay them out
• Pay them when in distress, showing compassion
• The ability to understand others gets first person back on track at the end of the day
• Ability to share another's feelings
• Ability to identify mentally with another person
• Vicarious feeling
• Emotional identification
• Psychological identification