Possible Clues:

• Is Mother equal to have come from Italy?
• Where Violet is the equal of her mother
• Parents have a right to separate in Italy
• City of ham and violets
• City known for its prosciutto
• Parents accommodate heading for Rome (Italian city)
• It's all the same to a mother in Italy
• Prosciutto di ___ (prized ham)
• Italian city famed for its cheese
• Italian city known for its ham and cheese