Possible Clues:

• With 11-Across, tux-renting occasion
• One is older in the Spanish gentleman
• Elder person - higher in rank
• Older in years or higher in rank
• One is oddly placed above king higher in rank
• In view of the fact that your're sounding older
• The elder rose in confusion
• Older Spaniard embraces one
• I get a Spanish lad who's my boss around
• In view of this, by the sound of it, you're more aged