Possible Clues:

• Niece or aunt
• Perhaps 10 winks stirred old chap
• Monk was ordered to keep at home, one relatively close
• Man knows I lost one of the old relatives
• Grandmother, e.g
• Ma is known to be construed as such -- but not pa
• Mostly benevolent western sultanate imprisoning second family member
• Unexpected win associated with a monk’s blood relation
• Mother for example knows main way out
• Female relative