Possible Clues:

• The girl's mother takes unusually hot pride in being bisexual
• Male and female Olympians eliminating opponents
• Male and female pair do the cooking, east of Channel island
• Female and male goddess joins together as this?
• Both man and woman married — hope this is not confusing!
• Male and female from tiny island designed period hat
• Person having both male and female characteristics
• One could be adept: him or her?
• Female (with plan)? Male (hugging bar)? It's a bit of both
• Island goddess who combines opposite qualities