Possible Clues:

• Really love something, with 'up'
• Dinner table order from Mom
• 'You can't have your cake and . . . . .'
• 1984 hit parody of a 1983 hit song
• How to deal with a matter of course
• Yankovic video that ends with a freeze-framed spoof of "Thriller"
• Suffer a loss, slangily
• Suffer an embarrassing defeat, slangily
• ''You can't have your cake and . . . . .''
• Fail ignominiously