Possible Clues:

• After tea give us a song just to annoy us
• Ribbing
• Poking fun at
• Making one's hair stand on end?
• So the cuppa's on top of the gin? Just joking!
• Tantalising
• Kidding
• Playfully vexing
• Raise one's voice after drink - causing annoyance
• Irritating attempt to entertain perhaps after meal